We have friends visiting very soon from Australia.
I have known them all my life as they were contempories of my parents. I am so looking forward to seeing them again, not least because I never knew my father as an adult, he died when I was in my late teens, and I very much look forward to hearing their memories of him - and of my mum - who lives with us.
In my mind, my Dad is a very vague figure but a powerful personality - if that makes any sense at all. I have watched old Super 8 footage of him larking around and I don't really recognise him - so I think hearing more will be valuable.
We are trying to buy a car - for good, sound need reasons - but we have had to work hard to look out for ecological and ethical considerations. At various points I have felt there has been a strong chance we would disappear up our own behinds with concerns over this and that - but I think we are on the way. We desperately wanted to down-size from a Land Rover - but there is a reality check - 5 dogs, 2 cats, a rabbit - four human family members - all with varying special needs and occasional retreatants and friends staying with us mean that although this is desirable and commendable - it isn't very practical. Location also plays it's part. I need to get all over Scotland - and sometimes in foul weather and with alot of luggage - a lift is a luxury - but a so very much appreciated one when the alternative is trying to manage a guide dog, wheelie suitcase and rucksack through the transportation system! It is not clever, ethical or green - but a 4 X 4 certainly speaks to our current needs. I am disappointed - but at least clear why we need what we need - and I no longer have a sneaking suspicion that for now, we could be going for a different option.
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